Deactivate Anti-Parenting

How are you Mom? I hope everything runs well in your life more over of your child. Nothing is so precious than child of yours hereby we as parents or future parents should activate parenting sense lying on ourselves, awakening it up. As a matter of fact that every of us has parenting sense but because of several bad habits of ours we deactivate the parenting sense. Therefore we easily get angry with our child as he or she does something we consider as wrong one. The anger toward our child as a feedback on his or her naughty behavior is called as anti-parenting. Stay little longer and keep reading it to elaborate the deactivating anti-parenting topic one by one.


Not Telling Lies
Mom, what do you thing of mother striving to persuade her child to do something else by laying the child? For the time being it seems fine but it gives negative impact on his moral aspect if we do it and do it again for a long period of time. The first prediction is that the child would think that whatever his mother tells most of them are lies. The second one is that the child would consider telling a lie is none of sin.

A mother, my next-door-neighbor, always tells lie to persuade her female three-year-old child to go home if her child behaves naughtily toward her friends or does naughty actions at her neighbor’s house. “Come with me, your uncle has come and is going to beach with you” it sounds nice but it effects badly on the child because no longer the child will know that it is not true, just a lie coming from her mother’s mouth. Mom, now the child of my neighbor always considers what her mother says most of her statements are lies. “No that’s lie” she responds once or just cry as a signal to refuse the persuading statement. As the child grows she will imitate her mother’s behavior of telling lies. As a result the mother not only fails to educate her child but also generates a new bad behavior of telling lies on her child.

Naughty behavior is a nature of children it is not necessary for us to do such bad action, telling a lie, to prevent their bad behaviors. (I will elaborate it in my another article

Getting injured on some parts of body is none of big problem but if we make our precious child’s hearth injured that is a disaster. It is because the getting injured on body can be cured in several days ahead but the injured hearth of our precious child is long to be cured. It takes us long period of time to cure it. as a philosophy I believe in that a child is a blank piece of paper. Whatever he or she would be, either bad or good person, we as parents take a part in filling the heart.


Being a Model Parents
Mom, have you ever attended a seminar or a meeting with your child? Then you sit at the first row of chairs line. If you have ever done it: CONGRATULATION for having shown a good model action to your child. That is one of trivia matters that we unfortunately think it as not-significant matter but actually it plays important role in activating the parenting sense.

The action of taking a seat at the first row is to set a philosophy idea, to be brought into real action, on Mom’s child that as great human being that has been granted by God a complete facilities such as brain, hands, legs and others must be on top in every aspect of this life or both worldly and heavenly success.
And how about you, Mom?
To be Continued