Good-womenizing Tricks

Is that a love if there is no any sacrificing?Is that a love if there is even no second of time spent to think of the loved?Is that a love if you do not believe in him at all or just partly?Is that a love if he does not understand what you are feeling? I do not know the answers. I do believe that you could. When a couple of human being is in ‘in-between relationship’ (a relationship without any real goal to the sacred-relationship bound by the Almighty) all answers above would be so nice, Yeah so nice to be believed. Most of them are (I am sorry) virtual and immortal answers.

I’d like to answer only question number 4:
Is that a love if he does not understand what you are feeling?

For men to understand
It is better for man to be able to speak right to the lover’s heart. Understand her feeling without needing to be told. Without your lover says any word you can light up the dark inside her. Hence all you need is to define it even when she does not seem to be what she might be.

For women to understand
A single and simple physical appearance you can find from him is his smile. The smile on his face let you know that he needs you. It could even tell you deeply that he never leaves you. Track on his eyes. His shining eyes say he’ll catch you wherever you fall. Track on his eyes whether his love is cinta nafsu or cinta murni. The true love is never let you down in the unrespectable deed, never to deserve to touch your softness of your hands and face.

For men to understand
Old woman says: “I’ve loved the same man for 54 years and I wish he knew”. Most of women want their men get them through much better that they do love their men.

Middle-aged woman says: “Don’t make him love you(another woman) because he is all I’ve got.” Most of women have a tendency of loyalty much and it hurts much if they are cheated by their men.

Sometimes what you see is never what you get hence women needs to be understood.
And the best men are those who understand what women are feeling and have in their mind even when they say nothing at all.

Sometimes some women are able to be patient of men’s poverty, lacking charm, little time spent for them. On contrary it is hard to find women who are able to be patient of men’s bad behaviors toward them.

Alloh has granted men strength more than what women have but He has granted stronger feeling on their heart. To be proven, many of men having strength and deep authority in their society kneel desperately on the power of women’s feeling. On every men’s success there must be wonderful women encouraging and standing behind them with their feeling.

One of skill needed to get along with women is simply to know the key that can influence them and the key is no other but just touching her feeling. It means that feeling is all their weapon therefore men should ‘attack’ them on this part.

My teacher says that (to men) be the mouth because women are the ears. Be the nice men by spreading nice words that is able to create a splendid field of flower in women’s ears and never do the opposite because it will hurt women’s feeling much.

Love is the long-lasting topic that human being has been conducting with then we must know well and apply it for good purpose only. Just to find sholikah wife not just to have a fun. Read More......